My Supports

            My biggest support comes from my family. When I decided to return to school, I told my kids that I would need help getting things done around the house in order to have time to do everything that is required for my job and school. To be honest, they have spoiled me. I help with grocery shopping and some cleaning or laundry, but they do the majority of the meal planning, cooking, and cleaning. This frees my time to do lesson planning and preparation for work as well as time for my school work. They are also good about not letting me get so wrapped up in these activities that I forget to have a good time. They occasionally “kidnap” me to go to the movies, etc. Without their help, I would find it extremely difficult to accomplish all that needs to be done in a day.

            I have support at work as well. One support that I have truly come to appreciate is that which is offered through interventionists in the community. I am lucky that my community has organizations that provide services for children with special needs. I have typically worked with the same two women over the past several years and have become friends with them through these interactions. They provide me with information, ideas, and equipment necessary for helping some of my students. Sometimes they serve as a sounding board and a source of encouragement when I am struggling in my dealings with certain students. Although I am sure that I could find pertinent information on the internet that may help me deal with my special needs students, I don’t think that I would have access to some of the equipment that has come in handy. I also think that without the support of these professionals I would probably find myself overwhelmed in my classroom.

            Recently, I was offered a job in a different city, which would have required me to move. On top of considering whether or not I thought I would be a good fit in regards to the school’s philosophy, etc., I also had to imagine what life would be like without the support of my family. Would I be able to adjust to a new classroom environment, life as a single person, and continue with my education? I decided not to take the job, primarily because of philosophical differences, but I have to admit that part of the reason was my fear that I would not be able to continue my education.